
As fall rolls on into winter, everyone is taking precautions to keep from getting sick. Some people are running out to get their flu shot, while others stock up on vitamin C. Of course all these actions are great for staying physically healthy, but very few consider taking preventative care of their marriage in the same way they do their health.
Today's entertainment news is filled with celebrity couple images and bold headlines that read "Divorce". Kim Kardashian, Jennifer Lopez, and Demi Moore are the latest stars to have divorce proceedings in their future to great public dismay. Although these women are smart, talented, and beautiful, these highly desirable qualities did not keep the grim reaper of marital death from knocking on their door. For one, rumors of infidelity were the cause, for another, the stress of too much media attention was to blame. Either way, outside factors caused sickness in the body of the marriage that allowed the disease of divorce to develop and ultimately kill the life source of the union.
Whether you're a celebrity or Suzie Q. Homemaker, taking precautions to keep your marriage intact is just as important as going to the dentist every 6 months and the gynecologist once a year. To prevent the disease of divorce in your marriage, it's important to promote the three elements of love, health, and wealth within the relationship. Love, health, and wealth are vital to the everlasting happiness of the partnership and must be maintained by both husband and wife throughout the marriage.
To promote love with your marriage, take the time to do something tender and unexpected that puts a smile on your spouse's face. For example, a wife can hide a pair of her sexy thong underwear in her husband's coat pocket or cook and serve dinner in stunning lingerie to get him sexually aroused. A husband could get his wife flowers and scented candles on a day that isn't her birthday, their anniversary or Valentine's Day. Coming up with ideas can be challenging, but look to the personality and interests of your partner to see how you can promote love in your marriage and maintain commitment for years to come.
To promote health in your marriage, do things with your spouse that focus on the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual connection and attractiveness that you have to each other. Exercising together by hiking, running, or dancing is a great way to stay in shape and bond over past memories or future plans. Reading books, visiting museums, or watching documentaries are several ways that married couples can stimulate their mental facilities and learn together. Listening to your spouse's news about work, family, and friendships is a positive way to increase your emotional connection to each other and shows your partner that you are actively engaged in the relationship. Discussing ideas on spirituality, like whether you believe in an after-life, reincarnation, or a Heaven and a Hell, can add depth to the union and spiritually align your relationship. There is always something to learn about your spouse and the more you communicate the more you invest in the union and build its strength.
To promote wealth in your marriage, assess your financial circumstance every three to six months to see how you and your spouse measure up against your goals. For example, if you are planning to save for a special vacation or home improvements, evaluate your financial standing with a cash flow analysis to see how much money is coming in and going out. All debt should be discussed and plans should be made on how to manage it and eventually eliminate it. Talking about money can be a hard thing to do with your partner, but having a positive attitude about how to use it as a tool towards happiness is much better than looking at it as a means of happiness. When both husband and wife share the responsibility of managing the marriage's financial pulse, both the bank account and relationship are in the black.
No matter what stage you are in your marriage, it's important to know that neglecting any one of these aspects for a happy relationship can put your union in jeopardy. Therefore, you should make it a habit to ask your partner how they feel and listen. Address love, health, and wealth in your committed relationship on a consistent basis, and watch your union grow stronger and stronger as the years turn into decades.
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